Q&A Podcast Archive: 2011
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Q&A Podcasts Recorded in 2011
Every time you put your penis in a vagina, a number of “bad” things can happen. In the second part of this two-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series about sex and anxiety, Dr. Glover addresses the fear of contracting a sexually transmitted disease. He discusses educating yourself about STDs, using protection, and having the “pre-sex talk.”
For most Nice Guys, anxiety and sex go hand in hand. In this two-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers some random questions about sex and anxiety. In this podcast, he discusses erectile dysfunction and the effect of anxiety on erections. Dr. Glover gives suggestions for overcoming sexual anxiety and breaking dependence on the little blue pill.
Crushes are common for Nice Guys. Whether daydreaming about a woman from afar or becoming a girlfriend with a penis hoping a woman will someday desire you in the way you desire her, crushes are a hindrance in getting the love and sex you want. In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover discusses how crushes are formed by a combination of hope and uncertainty and he presents a strategy for avoiding and overcoming crushes.
Boundaries are essentials for happy and satisfying relationships. In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover discusses why Nice Guys grow up not learning how to set boundaries. He shares how boundaries are a good thing and can invite other people into higher consciousness. He concludes with some examples of how to set boundaries in various situations.
Dating can be frustrating. Online dating can be especially so. In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover discusses the positive aspects and benefits of online dating. Online dating gives men greater access to single women. Creating an online profile can be a powerful jump start for your dating intentions. Dr. Glover gives some suggestions to help you overcome the frustrations of online dating.
In this final installment of this four-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series on the kind of women to avoid, Dr. Glover discusses the queen mother of all Really Wrong Women – Borderlines. In this presentation on borderline personality disorder, Dr. Glover explains why they are so seductive, why they need constant chaos, and why you will always feels crazy with a borderline. He concludes with a list of warning signs to help you quickly recognize when you might be dating a borderline.
In part three of this four-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series on the kind of women to avoid, Dr. Glover discusses “Really Wrong Women.” These are the women who will make you suffer if you get involved with them. Really Wrong Women include liars, addicts, cheaters, man-haters, and emotionally unstable women. Dr. Glover explains why Nice Guys tend to be attracted to these kind of women.
In part two of this four-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series on the kind of women to avoid, Dr. Glover discusses “Wrong Women.” These are the women who will make you unhappy and bring out the worst in you. Wrong Women include “sniffers,” gold diggers, unavailable, moody women.
The way that most Nice Guys date lays the worst possible foundation for building a satisfying, long-term relationship. In this four-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses what kind of woman to avoid if you want to build a relationship that will bless your life and lighten your load. In this podcast he gives an overview of the 5/5 list, the relationship triangle, and how to classify the women you meet.
In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover answers some random questions from listeners. These include who should pay on a first date and is it valuable to listen to women’s opinions about dating. He also addresses two myths about women; that they know what they want and that they are good at relationships.
Why are women attracted to Jerks? In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover answers the universal Nice Guy lament. He explains why as “security seeking creatures,” women don’t always act in their own best interests when it comes to men and why they need emotional tension for attraction and attachment. Dr. Glover shows you how to use these principles to attract women without being a jerk.
Most Nice Guys believe that if a woman can’t have everything exactly the way she wants its, she won’t be interested in a relationship. In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover dispels the myths that women are only interested in committed relationships and that they always make rational relationship choices. He proposes that when men set the tone and take the lead, women will often follow, even when it isn’t exactly what they say they want.
In part three of this three-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers questions about rejection. These include not to take a woman’s behavior personally, letting go of attachment to outcome, how to deal with women who show low interest to you but high interest in another guy, and why women don’t call back after they give you their number.
In part two of this three-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses how to look at rejection logically. He presents a strategy for overcoming the fear of success by becoming an observer, working on skills that lead to success, consciously trying to get rejected, and embracing your sexual agenda. He also shares some ideas soothing feelings of rejection.
For Nice Guys the fear of rejection can be paralyzing. In part one of this three-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses the problem of being “nice” and seeking approval and validation from women. He discusses how rejection only hurts when it reinforces our own inner feelings of not being good enough.
In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover answers more questions about testing for interest. He presents the basics of testing for interest, the need to be bold and clear when testing, and how to tell if a woman really is “too busy” if you ask her out.
Testing for interest is a powerful tool in the dating toolbox. In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover answers questions about how to test if a woman seems distracted or shy, how to test by making eye contact, how to let go of attachment to outcome when testing, and how not to take people’s low interest responses personally.
In this final podcast of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Me n Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover shares his own personal application of the principles he has presented in this series. He talks about creating a “Success Collage” and a “Mind Map” to help you keep moving in the direction of your deepest desires.
In part six of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover presents a guided imagery to help you visualize the success you desire (and fear).
Co-dependent relationships are a major hurdle in achieving success for Nice Guys. In part five of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses strategies for breaking free from co-dependent relationships by building support systems, learning to say “no,” and becoming a “good ender.”
In part four of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover presents several strategies for changing your view of yourself and the world. These include developing a gratitude practice, practicing receiving, celebrating your successes, and letting go of resentment.
In part three of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover presents strategies for overcoming your fear of success. He suggests ways to develop the confidence that you can handle whatever success brings.
In part two of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover presents some of the downsides of success that your brain might logically fear. These include the downsides of success at dating and work and gaining wealth or status. He presents ways to identify your fears and your self-limiting beliefs about success.
Nice Guys are typically good at being good, but not great at being great. In part one of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover states that it is logical to avoid doing what might lead to success if success might bring all of the problems your brain fears it will. In this podcast, Dr. Glover discusses various reasons why Nice Guys fear success.
Dating can progress at various speeds. In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover discusses how fast to go depending on whether you are looking for a Really Great Woman or a friend with benefits. He also discusses the problem of being goal-directed in dating.
In this Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast, Dr. Glover answers questions from podcast listeners. These include how to manage time while dating and how to convert online success into real world dating success.
In the final part of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover presents additional strategies for overcoming toxic perfectionism. These strategies include focusing on the positive, putting yourself into situations that make you feel less than perfect, surrounding yourself with people who treat you well, and learning to soothe yourself.
In part four of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses ways to become conscious of and overcome toxic perfectionism. These include journal writing, revealing to safe people, stopping comparing self to others, and becoming a non-judgmental observer.
In part three of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers three questions from listeners. These include why we don’t have to be perfect for women to be attracted to us, why doing things 100% isn’t the same as trying to be perfect, and why it is important to be real and human, not perfect.
In part two of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover continues his discussion of toxic perfectionism. He describes why perfectionism leads to hiding self from others. He discusses learning to be transparent without revealing all of your insecurities and how to practice revealing to safe people.
In part one of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover explains why toxic shame leads Nice Guys to believe they have to be perfect to attract women and be loved. He discusses the use of covert contracts and seduction to compensate for feelings of not being good enough.
In part five of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover concludes his discussion of positive emotional tension. He answers questions about trying to win back an ex after the fire has died and what to do when a woman seems to want to be pursued.
In part four of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses using positive emotional tension to turn a “friend” relationship into a “friends with benefits” relationship. He describes “Sniffers” -- women who keep men sniffing around even though they have no intention of getting with them.
In part three of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover gives a thorough overview of positive emotional tension. He discusses why Nice Guys don’t like tension and how this affects their ability to create attraction with women. Dr. Glover shares examples of tension in life, art, music, and sports.
In part two of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover further discusses the concept of positive emotional tension and explains why it is so important for attraction and attachment. He discusses why seeking a woman’s approval kills tension.
In part one of this five-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses the importance of creating positive emotional tension with women online and on the first date. He shares things that men do to kill tension.
In part three of this three-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers questions about the early stages of dating. Questions include interesting things to do on a second date, how to test for your 5/5, and how to be a good ender.
In part two of this three-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers questions about the early stages of dating. Dr. Glover discusses the goals of the early stages of dating and answers a question about kissing passionately on a first date.
In part one of this three-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers questions about the early stages of dating. These questions include dating several women at once, avoiding fusion with women, and what to say if a woman asks if you are seeing other women.
In part two of this two-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses additional strategies for staying out of the friend zone. This includes screening calls from women. He presents additional information about creating positive emotional tension and setting the tone.
It is not uncommon for Nice Guys to end up in the Friend Zone with women they are attracted to. In part one of this two-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover discusses how to avoid becoming a “girlfriend with a penis.” He talks how to be aware of when you are slipping into the friend zone and how to get out again by positively responding to women’s “shit tests,” creating positive emotional tension, and setting the tone and taking the lead.
Dr. Glover wraps up this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series with a discussion of why dating and relationships can be such powerful tools for personal growth, why you should never settle, and how to put yourself in position to meet your RGW.
In part six of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers additional questions about finding a Really Great Woman. These include what kind of questions to ask that will help you get to know a woman quickly, dealing with extreme differences in socioeconomic status, and where are the best places to meet a Really Great Woman?
In part five of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover continues to answer questions about finding a Really Great Woman. These questions include how to test to quickly find out a woman’s nature, is it healthy to have platonic relationships with women you’ve dated, and how to invite a woman to be the icing on you really great cake.
In part four of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers more questions about finding a Really Great Woman. These include how to test a woman’s ability to take responsibility for her actions, the paradox of women who have been to a lot of therapy, and should you date women who are obviously Wrong Women just for practice?
In part three of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover answers questions about finding a Really Great Woman. These include how to find a woman who will make a great wife and mother, how long to date a woman who isn’t your RGW, and how to identify where a woman falls on the Relationship Pyramid.
In part two of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover introduces the Relationship Pyramid and explains how to use your 5/5 list to help you quickly identify the kind of woman you are dating. He presents the concept of “going as slowly as possible to find out as quickly as possible what a woman’s nature is.”
According to Dr. Glover, the way most people date is the worst possible way to go about building a healthy, long-term relationship. In part one of this seven-part Dating Essentials for Men Q&A Podcast series, Dr. Glover lays out a plan to improve your chances of finding a Really Great Woman. This podcast presents the concept of creating a great cake of a life and the basics of a 5/5 list.
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