WHY DON’T RELATIONSHIP “EXPERTS” TALK ABOUT THIS?
Why the modern approach to relationships is failing—and the natural dynamic that actually creates lasting passion, trust, and deep connection.
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It’s Happening Again…
She has that look in her eyes.
Cold. Tight. Distant.
You don’t know what you did wrong this time… but you already want to fix it.
You replay the last conversation. The last few hours. The last few days.
You do everything you were taught a nice guy should do, but it never seems to work.
Some days, you catch glimpses of the amazing relationship you’ve always wanted… The one you saw so clearly when you first met…
The rest of the time? The relationship might be OK… But it’s definitely not great.
You can’t tell if you’re on the brink of losing her… or if you’re standing in front of an open door to the relationship you always wanted.
And, at this point, you almost don’t care which way it goes.
You just want clarity, peace, and certainty.
You want a relationship that fills you with happiness and helps you to grow… Or you might as well be single.
I get it.
For over 40 years, I’ve worked with thousands of men stuck in similar predicaments (and I’ve been there too).
I’ve got some good news:
There is a way through this… But it’s not what you’ve been told.
It’s not what society is preaching. It’s not politically correct. It’s not about being “fair” or “equal.”
But it’s real. And it works.
How do I know?
Because I’ve seen it transform countless relationships.
If you want a radically different outcome, you have to do something radically different. And if you do, it will be the greatest gift you ever give yourself and the woman you love.
But before I get into it, there are a few things you need to understand...
You’ve Struggled in Your Relationships Because You’ve Ignored Human Nature
(But It’s Not Your Fault)
I’m about to tell you some things that contradict what you’ve been told about relationships.
I’ve seen these truths confirmed time and again throughout thousands of couples therapy sessions.
Once you become aware and embrace them, you’ll understand what’s been missing all along.
Truth #1
For most of human history, monogamy was the exception. Not the rule.
For 1.5 million years, your ancestors lived in tribes where they shared everything – including sexual access..
Lifelong, pair-bonded monogamous relationships are not a part of human DNA..
If you’ve struggled to “make your relationship work,” you’re not broken. Like everyone else, you’ve bought into a cultural model of intimate relationships that has never worked.
But, it’s here to stay…
And if you plan to participate, you have a responsibility to figure out the best way to make it work with your nature.
And, it really can work.
In fact, when done consciously, intimate relationships can be powerful personal growth machines that grow us like nothing else can.
Before that can happen, we have to take a look at another important truth…
Truth #2
Fairness and equality kill the thing your relationship needs most.
Polarity.
The dynamic that creates and sustains desire, attraction, and positive tension between masculine and feminine energy.
When the north and south poles of two magnets face each other, there’s a strong, natural pull that draws them together.
But put north to north or south to south, and you get a repulsion that makes it impossible to connect.
That’s why this idea of 50/50 equality, while well-intentioned, is actually one of the most destructive myths in modern relationships.
You don’t need fairness. You need polarity, positive emotional tension, and a clear understanding of who is leading and who is being led.
Partners can trade roles and shift energies, but relationships tend to work best when each partner has a default they settle into, and more often than not…
Truth #3
Grounded, masculine energy is best at setting the tone and taking the lead.
You’ve been told that, because women are more emotionally intelligent, intuitive, and care more about relationships, they’re better equipped to lead.
But time and again, I’ve watched this fail in practice.
In fact, when you wait for her to set the tone, solve the problems, and move things forward, you both end up frustrated, overwhelmed, and unsupported.
You know what I’ve seen work over and over again?
When a man leads with clarity, presence, and love.
I’ve said it for years, and I’ll say it again: a woman cannot follow where a man does not lead.
Which finally brings us to the thing that can empower you to create the amazing relationship you’ve always wanted…
CONSCIOUS MASCULINE LEADERSHIP
Conscious, open-hearted, masculine leadership is the greatest gift a man can give his woman.
When you set the tone and take the lead, you become more conscious and present in your relationship. When women experience this loving, masculine energy, it activates something so deep within them that they simply want to relax into it and let you take them places they can’t take themselves.
And the more you do it, the more you create space for open communication, problem resolution, reciprocity, trust, and sexual passion.
And What do Women Think of This?
I cannot tell you how many couples I’ve sat with in my office where I started laying out the principles I’m sharing here with a perplexed, frustrated man while his wife or girlfriend listened. . . .
And within minutes, the woman turns to her man and says, “I like him – he gets women.”
What I am sharing with you here is the greatest act of love and integrity you can offer your partner, and when you lead with this kind of presence, one of two things will happen:
Your relationship will deepen in a way you never thought possible
Or it will become clear that it’s time to walk away
Either way, you’ll finally be able to stop spinning in circles. You’ll stop wondering if you’re the problem. And you’ll know with certainty that you’ve shown up fully, as the man you were meant to be.
And the most effective way to step into that kind of leadership?
That’s exactly what I’ll guide you through in a process that I call…
All The Way In
Getting all the way in is the most courageous action you can take in any relationship.
It demands love and integrity. It pushes you to grow and become your best self. It invites your partner to do the same and gives your relationship the chance to become everything it was meant to be. It also reveals the truth of any situation. And when it’s time to get out, it gives you the clarity and courage to do just that.
Oh, By The Way
You cannot decide if you should get out, if you’ve never gotten all the way in.
This eight-lesson on-demand video course will teach you how to step into conscious masculine leadership and transform your relationship from the inside out. This course is not about fixing your partner. It’s about transforming how you show up and watching everything else shift as a result.
If what you’ve been doing to find and keep love hasn’t worked, welcome to the club. But all of that changes now.
Over eight transformational lessons, you’ll start showing up in a way that reignites passion, rebuilds trust, and reclaims your power as a man. Here’s what’s waiting for you inside:
Lesson 1: Getting All The Way In
- A six-month framework that will bring your relationship to new heights or allow you to walk away with clarity and peace.
- The empowerment of knowing the ability to change your relationship rests in your hands and yours alone.
- A clear understanding of the line between toxic control and a way of being that will make her feel safe, seen, and irresistibly drawn to you.
Lesson 2: Why You and Your Partner Worked Together to Create The Relationship You Have
- A plan for recognizing and fixing the invisible, co-created system that’s keeping your relationship stuck in the same exhausting cycles.
- The invisible forces behind repeating dysfunctional relationship patterns and the surprising fix that makes deep, powerful intimacy possible.
- The way to identify your #1 relationship fear and how you can stop it from sabotaging trust and intimacy between you and your partner.
Lesson 3: Transforming Your Anxiety-Based Relationship
- The way your brain chooses your partners and re-creates childhood fears without you realizing, and what you need to do to take back control.
- Your go-to response to relationship stress and how breaking it instantly sets the tone for mutual respect, clearer boundaries, and more magnetic intimacy.
- The shocking reason the person you love most also triggers your deepest fears and how you can finally get close without bracing for criticism, rejection, or abandonment.
Lesson 4: Calm is Contagious
- Get the antidote to lizard brain reactions: 4 self-soothing tools that interrupt your fear-driven patterns and create real relationship change.
- Master the art of responding instead of reacting — and watch your intimacy, power, and confidence skyrocket.
- Understand why calm is contagious — and how just one grounded person can shift the entire dynamic in a relationship.
Lesson 5: Defuse Your Relationship
- Learn the single most important skill that separates mature, thriving adults from anxious, reactive ones: Differentiation.
- Find out why trying to get a tribe’s worth of needs met by one person never works — and the powerful solution that will.
- Gain freedom and intimacy at the same time by building your own tribe, owning your needs, and freeing your partner to be loved — not controlled.
Lesson 6: From Salsa to The Dog Whisperer: How to Lead Your Relationship With Love
- Discover the truth about female security-seeking instincts — and how setting the tone makes her feel safe, seen, and sexy.
- Unpack the real meaning of "shit tests" and why they’re actually signs she wants to trust your strength and follow your lead.
- Reclaim your masculine energy without being controlling — and ignite powerful polarity and emotional reciprocity in your relationship.
Lesson 7: Love Your Partner Enough to Not Let Her Treat You Badly
- If your partner is treating you badly, it's your fault — and here’s how to take your power back through boundaries.
- Why boundaries aren’t walls — they’re bridges to deeper intimacy, respect, and love.
- Learn why women trust men who set boundaries — and how this instantly boosts your attractiveness, leadership, and emotional safety.
Lesson 8: The Three Rules for Great Sex
- “If you’re not having the mind-blowing sex you want… it’s your fault.” Welcome to your final wake-up call.
- The 3 Rules for Great Sex that not only reignite desire—but unlock your deepest masculine power and confidence.
- Why women trust = lust—and how destroying her trust is the fastest way to dry up her desire.
Ready to Become The Conscious Leader of Your Relationship?
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Meet Your Instructor
Dr. Robert Glover
Hi there,
I’m Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and Dating Essentials for Men, and the creator of All the Way In.
For over 40 years, I’ve worked with couples who were frustrated, disconnected, and wondering why love felt so hard.
When I first started as a marriage therapist back in the early ‘80s, women were the ones dragging their reluctant partners into therapy. By the time I wrapped up my private practice, the roles had reversed. Men were the ones pulling their wives and girlfriends in, desperate to make things work.
After thousands of hours in sessions, one thing became clear: when a man steps up, sets the tone, and leads with love, the relationship often transforms.
Conscious masculine leadership is the foundation of everything I teach in this course. I’ve seen it turn disconnected marriages into passionate partnerships. I’ve seen it bring couples back from the brink. And I’ve seen it help good men finally walk away from marriages they should have left years ago.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop second-guessing yourself, and start creating the relationship you want, All the Way In will show you how.
Hi there,
I’m Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and Dating Essentials for Men, and the creator of All the Way In.
For over 40 years, I’ve worked with couples who were frustrated, disconnected, and wondering why love felt so hard.
When I first started as a marriage therapist back in the early ‘80s, women were the ones dragging their reluctant partners into therapy. By the time I wrapped up my private practice, the roles had reversed. Men were the ones pulling their wives and girlfriends in, desperate to make things work.
After thousands of hours in sessions, one thing became clear: when a man steps up, sets the tone, and leads with love, the relationship often transforms.
Conscious masculine leadership is the foundation of everything I teach in this course. I’ve seen it turn disconnected marriages into passionate partnerships. I’ve seen it bring couples back from the brink. And I’ve seen it help good men finally walk away from marriages they should have left years ago.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop second-guessing yourself, and start creating the relationship you want, All the Way In will show you how.
Ready to Experience These Benefits?
Enroll in All The Way In today and start transforming your relationship.
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Hear From Those Who've Gone All The Way In
T.D.
“Our sex life has gone through the roof and has never been as active as now. (We are both 53)”
T.W.
“This was the most challenging, and the most rewarding personal development course I have ever done.”
C.A.
S. P.
“From Zero to Hero in just 5 weeks! I could not have believed that such a profound transformation in my relationship could occur with an online course. I feel sheepish to say I didn’t want to spend the money – yet the investment has more than repaid itself. Thank you Dr. Glover! I look forward to taking more online courses, and learning from you in person.”
Rick S.
“Since reading NMMNG and taking your All The Way In Course, my marriage has never been better. I really do thank you for helping me help myself. I can’t wait to enjoy the improvement continue as I participate in your next course. You are performing a great service not only to guys in need but to so many families including children who will benefit from better, more satisfying marriages.”
Scott
“ATWI has made a HUGE difference to my relationship. I really didn’t expect such a huge change in just 8 weeks. I told my wife something you had written and she said, ‘now he really knows women!’”
C.E.
“While I was driving yesterday, my wife — who is a very careful woman — suddenly turned to me and kissed me on the mouth. I have been with her 32 years and that has never happened. I nearly drove off the road in surprise! There is no doubt that you have given me some great valuable tools. Thank you, Robert.”
J.H.
(Female class member)
“Thanks so much for offering this class – it was eye-opening, challenging, and has changed how I think about my interactions with my husband. It is reassuring – and a bit scary – to understand the reasons behind certain behaviors, and how to change long ingrained habits and dynamics. Since I barely scratched the surface of what I can put into practice, I plan to re-do the lessons on my own in the future, to keep the ideas fresh in my brain.”
S.S.
“The class helped me look at my relationship as a personal growth machine, understanding how my lizard brain is triggered by my partner, and setting boundaries without being controlling.”
A. P.
“This is got to be one of my best investments in personal growth! Years and years of being in the dark about relationships and how my past has played a role in the eventual outcome of how relationships with women would end…Thank you Dr. Glover!”
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We are confident that the principles and practices in All The Way In will profoundly impact your relationship.
We stand behind our digital products at drglover.com. While we do not offer cash refunds for digital courses like All The Way In, we want you to be satisfied with your investment. If, within 30 days of your original purchase, you feel the course hasn’t met the quality you expected or provided value, we are happy to exchange it for another digital product of the same price (e.g., another digital class).
This exchange offer can be applied one time per purchase and must be requested within 30 days of the original purchase. To request an exchange, please contact us at support@drglover.com.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this course for?
This course is for individuals or couples who feel their relationship is stuck, lacking intimacy, or simply not living up to its potential. It’s for anyone ready to take responsibility and learn the tools to create deep connection and passion, whether you’re married, in a long-term partnership, or even single and wanting to prepare for a healthy relationship.
What if my partner isn't interested?
While it’s ideal for both partners to participate, this course is designed so that one person can be the catalyst for significant change. By changing how you show up, you fundamentally change the relationship dynamic. Many find their partners become more engaged as they see the positive shifts.
How much time does it require?
This is a self-paced course, so you can move as quickly or slowly as you like. We recommend dedicating a few hours per week to watch the lessons and, more importantly, implement the exercises and practices. Consistency is key.
What kind of results can I expect?
Results depend on your commitment and implementation. However, participants consistently report increased connection, better communication, reduced conflict, renewed passion, deeper intimacy, and a greater sense of confidence in their ability to navigate relationship challenges.
What if I'm single?
Absolutely! The principles in All The Way In are foundational for building any healthy relationship. Learning these skills now will prepare you to create an extraordinary partnership when the time is right, and help you avoid common pitfalls.
Ready to Become The Conscious Leader of Your Relationship?
Enroll today to experience the profound transformation conscious masculine leadership can bring to your relationship.
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Ready to Experience These Benefits?
Enroll in All The Way In today and start transforming your relationship.
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